Welcome to the Alpha-1 Association bulletin boards Val (bluefire)!
You and I are of a similar age. I was born in Oct. 1972.
I'm so very grateful that you've shared your experiences with us here. I must admit when you said that you had emphysema as a child, I was greatly taken aback. Everything I'm told by doctors and specialists says that the lung damage comes later. But I will say that I had always figured that my daughters' lungs are being damaged slowly with each day. I keep them inside on ozone action days and make sure that I get them to the doctor quick if I suspect a chest infection. I also keep them away from harsh cleaners with strong odors and such. But, I've learned that I can only do so much. What will happen, will happen. Speaking as a parent, Alpha-1 is a really hard pill to swallow because I can't control it.
My husband and I decided that we would start talking about Alpha-1 with our girls from the beginning so that it would be normalized for them. They attend our local support group meetings with us and now actually have 3 Alpha-1 kid peers. My daughter Grace actually calls those meeting the "Alpha friends." She refers to herself as an Alpha, and tells people her liver is "kinda brokey." She actually asks me if things I'm using as cleaners are things she can be around, and she is pretty vocal with strangers she encounters who smoke. She'll yell, "Stop that yucky smoking! It is hurting your lungs." We mostly get scowls from those individuals, and I've had to tell her that each person makes choices in his/her life. I encourage her to choose things that are good for her. And, I do recognize that talking about making good choices is very easy with a "black and white" 4 year old thinker. We'll see what kind of challenges she is confronted with as she gets older especially in her teenage years. Overall, my husband and I try to lead by example for her. We don't drink and don't smoke.
So here are my questions for you:
1) Did you ever try smoking cigarettes or other "wacky" substances? I wonder how my girls will do with this in their teenage and early 20s years.
2) Do you think you would have benefited from knowing another child (as you were growing up) who had Alpha-1 too? I don't want to shelter my girls, but I know that by exposing them to the world of Alpha-1, that they will eventually be exposed to the pain of Alpha-1 such as losing a friend to Alpha-1. Our support group lost one member when Grace was 2, and she still directs prayers to Mr.Gary in heaven. I'm not actually sure she remembers him, and think that it may just be a habit to remember him. ???
Overall, we treat both of our girls like normal kids. They play, laugh, learn, and enjoy life. Unfortunately, we do not know what lies ahead for them both. I am glad that they have each other, though. I can only hope that life is kind to them as we travel on their Alpha-1 journey.
Finally, I truly thank you for sharing some of your experience with us here. I'm also on the board of a new organization called Alpha-1 Kids which has partnered with the Alpha-1 Association. It is just in its "infancy" and was founded by Mark Rabush and his wife, Melissa Seigman. http:www.alpha1kids.org (more info will be added later this year) We'd love to have your input if you wouldn't mind. Let me know your thoughts by sending an email through this forum.
Thanks again!
Jen
Jen, mom of:
Grace, Alpha-1 ZZ (4/02)
Meghan, Alpha-1 ZZ (5/04)
Wisconsin
www.caringbridge.org/wi/alphagirls